"This is the best book I have ever read about sexual desire and why some couples just stop having sex, and what they can do about it.
Come As You Are is an absolutely necessary guide for all couples who want to understand the ups and downs in their own sex life. It is a must read!"
--John Gottman, Ph.D., author of
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work"Emily Nagoski has written one of the most important books about sex any woman (or anybody else) could ever pick up, full of insights that are both fascinating and deeply useful. Synthesizing new research and theory about sexuality with old-school sex-positive information of the sort you didn't learn in sex ed (unless, perhaps, you are a Unitarian, or Scandinavian, or lucky enough to be in Dr. Nagoski's class), I guarantee
Come As You Are will open minds and change lives."
-- Carol Queen, Ph.D., Founding director, Center for Sex & Culture
"Emily Nagoski is worth her weight in TED Talks, and
Come as You Are is a master-class in the science of sex."
-- Ian Kerner, sex therapist and bestselling author of
She Comes First"It's the science of sex, decoded and demystified. Want to be educated on the latest findings about female genitalia? Of course you do. Empowering and sex-positive at best, this informative read makes for an enticing bedfellow."
--Refinery29
"Lots of books -- and articles and experts -- claim to have the keys to transform your sex life. This one actually has it. It isn't as fast as taking a pill, but it will last a whole lot longer. You will find no hot new bedroom moves -- it's that deeper-level soul stuff. You know, the stuff that actually works."
--Salon.com